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aint56cool
Posts: 137
Joined: May 2019
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Sunday, July 11, 2021 11:46 AM | |
To my friends and trading partners on TCDB: With a breaking heart I am letting all know why I have been mentally absent for the past few days. As most of you know, my wife has been battling stage four lung cancer since 2019. Unfortunetly, the beast that is cancer is now winning the battle, and she has very minimal time left with us. Obviously, I am shattered and lost as my family and I go through this. I still log on to this site almost daily, and usually that is the extent of it. I am having a difficult time trying to get motivated enough to check on, approve, counter, or reject trade offers. I simply ask those that have sent offers to be patient; I will get to those offers and follow through as soon as I can get some peace and strength to do so. I totally understand if you need to withdraw any offers due to time concerns. As soon as I am able, I will be back and will work my way through any ongoing trades or proposals. Thank you for your understanding.
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CollectorKing23
Posts: 577
Joined: Jun 2019
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Sunday, July 11, 2021 12:11 PM | |
I am very sorry to hear this. I was unaware of the issue. Prayers that she can pull back out of it. All delays are understood given the circumstances. Take your time during this because there are things more important than cards.
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Matt Kenseth card collection is nearing 50% with over 2300 different cards. Always looking for the missing remainders to get to 100% completion.
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sandyrusty
Posts: 4,652
Joined: Dec 2014
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Sunday, July 11, 2021 12:44 PM | |
Mike, I am so sorry to hear that the cancer is now winning the battle. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Cards are just not that important.
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Bruno -------- Check my Profile page to see my 2023 Goals and my Lists of sets near completion (5 cards or less) or sets getting close (less than 100 cards missing and 75% complete). https://www.tcdb.com/Forum.cfm/Page/B/ID/0/?MODE=VIEW&ThreadID=25745&C=0
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vrooomed
Posts: 14,950
Joined: Dec 2012
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Sunday, July 11, 2021 12:58 PM | |
Mike, take care of yourself and keep your wife as comfortable as possible during this stage. Take your time and handle things only the way you can. Too many people try to tell you to handle grief their way. It works differently for everyone. Only you understand you enough to know what works and what doesn't. Take care and handg in there. You have a lot of friends here who are wishing the best for you.
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-- Dan -- Note: Please see my profile for more info regarding trading (section updated 3/4/2024). I have added a large portion of my inventory to the site, and currently have trading turned on (details are in my profile).
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RonEaston
Posts: 1,073
Joined: Nov 2019
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Sunday, July 11, 2021 1:17 PM | |
Many prayers will be sent up for your family and you, Mike. Be with them.
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I'm mostly organizing over adding right now.
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Doomprince
Posts: 96
Joined: Jun 2017
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Sunday, July 11, 2021 1:23 PM | |
I am so sorry to hear that you and your family are going through such a rough and tragic time. My heart breaks for you all. I am laying Semaa down as I send out thoughts and prayers.
Take all the time you need as family ALWAYS comes before this hobby. Do you man. Take care of yourself and those that need you. Just know that the people here will always be here if you need a friend to lean on.
Cheers mate.
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NJDevils
Posts: 6,344
Joined: Sep 2010
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Sunday, July 11, 2021 2:02 PM | |
Sorry to hear. I wish your family all the strength you can muster. You have been a reliable partner here.
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lyfestory
Posts: 115
Joined: Jun 2013
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Sunday, July 11, 2021 3:05 PM | |
Never traded or anything with you, but best wishes and thoughts to you and your family.
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CollectorTBNL
Posts: 205
Joined: Nov 2020
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Sunday, July 11, 2021 3:48 PM | |
Take care of yourself, the community will be here for you if you need us.
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deadhead11
Posts: 447
Joined: Jul 2018
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Sunday, July 11, 2021 5:11 PM | |
Family first. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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