No one's advisor. Simply making an observation on your intial reply to Chuck, based on what I've seen before. If you can't see why that would be cause for a red flag, or if you can't handle feedback based on what someone observes, that sounds like a separate issue.
I'll offer another bit of advice, though it will likely be met with sarcasm or ignored. Spend some time learning how the site works. There are very helpful guides in the FAQ, and nice details regarding making a tradelist, want list, and creating transactions. You will have much more success in using these tools than making forum posts.
I'll never quit collecting entirely, but I am downsizing. Check out my COMC store and help me thin out what I don't want so I can buy cards that I do want. See something you like? Send me a message on here, and we can knock the price down quite a bit. I'll even take a bit of a loss if it means getting you a card you really want.